You Attract........

You attract what you are. Your surroundings influence your life greatly on a daily basis. Do not emulate individuals who lack aspirations to succeed; if success is what you are after. How you choose to live your life affects you, — and solely you. Be the change you’d like to see in the world. know that people will always gravitate to those who share mutual interests. you attract people by the qualities you display. you keep them with the qualities you posses. acquire an optimistic mentally, because you are mindful that negative energy is wasted energy

-Bon Vivant

I don't, I am not but I am..

not all my bags or clothes are well branded.

My shoes? are neither Chanel nor Katespade.

But, i cover my body with Style.

I don't have expensive make up stuff.

I am not smart putting those chemical things to my face.

Neither my skin face nor body are fair-complexioned.

I am really proud with my sun-kissed skin.

I nourish them with some organic skin-care products;

to preserve these amazing things that God has been given to me.

I feel great about my skin without make up on my face.

it looks effortlessly Beauty. Naturally Glowing.

Acne? Fatness? HairFall? Too Skinny?

Dead skin cell? Oily Skin? Blemished face?

Strecth Marks? Cellulite?

Of course, i have one of those kind damn problem on me!

that's a phase of life which proving you are a HUMAN BEING, GROWING, AND ALIVE.

Know your self and value.

Beauty is not supposed to be a PAIN things.

Technology is important.

I using some of social media. of course i do, with some reason and purpose! 

to stay connected with the news, family, friends, and sometimes to express my self.

but honestly i am not really smart at sharing with them.

I don't have the best smartphone.

I don't follow my ego to buy pricey Tab, Note or whatever it called.

I sometimes wonder why people trying so hard to impress and break themselves to afford these stuff rather than to connect with the creature, societies and the nature.

Can't you see around or maybe look down? 

There's a lot of malnourished childern, hunger mother, or maybe a homeless guy need your hand. 

I am not so popular girl in the school or my university.

I am NOT an everybody's bestfriend kind of person.

BUT I HAVE A CHARACTER

I have perfectly unperfect life.

Family, Friends, Boyfriends, Ex-boyfriend, Frenemy or so whatever.

I have problems, i have secrets, i have past (Good and Dark).

that's what life taught and change us. 

Some for better or maybe worse.

YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE

GO FIND THE REASON WHY GOD GIVES YOU A CHANCE TO BREATH.

Sixteen Small Step to Happiness

1. push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5.30am.
go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise
2. push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. 
wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable. 
3. erase processed food from your diet. start with no lollies, chips, biscuits, then erase pasta, rice, cereal, then bread. use the rule that if a child couldn’t identify what was in it, you don’t eat it.
4. get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast.
 fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else. 
5. stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. 
roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything.
6. buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, 
then try drinking it twice.
7. buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, 
including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. 
no detail is too small.
8. strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine.
put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash.
make your bed in full.
9. organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle.
10. have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. 
wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth.
lather your whole body in moisturiser, 
get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck.
11. push yourself to go for a walk. 
take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. 
smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. 
bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. 
realise you can learn from your dog.
12. message old friends with personal jokes. 
reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through.
14. think long and hard about what interests you. 
crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette?
 find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything. 
15. become the person you would ideally fall in love with.
let cars merge into your lane when driving.
pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. 
challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. 
walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. 
ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends.
16. lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. 
open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.